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Where do I take sessions?
I'm available for sessions at a lovely Oakland dungeon or a gorgeous SOMA location.
I also love to travel, so contact Me if you're interested in arranging an out-of-town session. 

When am I available?
My availability is very limited and varies.
I generally need a week's notice, and cannot accommodate same-day bookings. 

What's My tribute? 
BDSM- $350/hr 
Out-call- Add $200 to accommodate to travel  
FTT- Add $150 
These rates represent tribute for the Bay Area, My rates fluctuate for other cities.

What's the deposit and cancellation fee for?
I require a non-negotiable $100/Hr deposit for all clients. This can be sent by CashApp to $SadieHex
or Venmo to SadieHex.
The deposit is to ensure you are not wasting My time. 

Cancellations with 48hrs notice or greater can either have the deposit refunded, or it can be held for a future booking within a month of the original date. Cancellations with less than 48hrs notice will mean the deposit is forfeited and I strongly recommend that you still send the full tribute to stay in My good graces. 

What do I expect from you?
First and foremost, respect My time. Do not bombard Me with messages or emails full of pointless information.  Be clear and concise when you contact Me.
I am a professional and I expect you to treat Me as such. I also expect transparency from you about your desires and hard limits, your health and any concerns that are relevant to Me. 

What do I want in a submissive?
I accept applications from submissive clients who desire to become a better, happier person through servitude. 
If you're ready and willing to commit to doing the work, then go read My sub coaching and training information. 

Do I offer coaching to clients who are not submissive? 
Of course! It just depends on your goals and if they align with My values.

Why do I require references?
I ask for at least 2 references from other professional providers to keep Myself safe, and if you are a good client, I will gladly be a future reference for you... Include an email or phone number for Me to contact them, and make sure to that they've given you permission to use them as a reference!  

What if you're a newbie, or have no references?
I'm no longer seeing newbies or clients without references at this time.
Get some experience under your belt, there's plenty of wonderful Domme's in the Bay who still see clients newbies, and then feel free to reach out!
How can you send Me a gift?
I accept gift cards sent to My email address Check with Me via before sending anything else
and I will give you approval (if it's something I desire and/or have a use for). 

 I  most appreciate gifts of monetary donation sent to these organizations! 

-St. James Infirmary
-Punks with Lunch-
-Moms 4 Housing-
-Border Angels-

Can you take Me on a date? Or have a vanilla session with Me?
 Sure! Let Me show you a more intimate side of Myself at My favorite restaurant or art museum... if I really like you, I might even take you to see some live music!
Tribute is the same as listed above, but My transportation, food, and any other costs are to be paid by you. 

Who are My favorite Mistresses to double with?
Like most other Dominatrixes, I LOVE to session with other providers.
Here's some highly reputable Mistresses that I very much enjoy playing with!

Where can you find Me on social media?

Do I see women, couples and gender non-conforming clients? 
ABSOLUTELY!! I'm queer, and genuinely love to get freaky with all kinds of people. 

How do you contact Me?
See the "Contact Me" page.

Do I offer virtual sessions?

Yes! I offer Skype and Jitsi video calls, and I find them to be quite enjoyable...  Tribute is $75/15mins (30 Min minimum) and required before the start of the session. I still require references and deposits if we've never met, and My boundaries are the same as they would be in person. 

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